I'll never forget how encouraging and helpful he was when I first pitched to the band to come to Bishop in 2006/2007.
I'm writing the same "Mommy has no intention of dying, but in case she does" letter I always write Babbo when I leave home for more than a day. It is the superstitious Chinese mother in me. Somehow, all these weird mortal concerns fall away once the letter is written and my ass is on that plane.